03 Jul Why I FemDom
Erotic extremism can be a stimulative tonic for the routine weary Chicagoan. My techniques will introduce you to the excitement of being sensually dominated, or evolve your relationship to it. The merging of relaxing pleasure with awakening intensity could be called soft domination, or playful BDSM. I like to call it “Sensation Play”. Should you crave immersion in a more instinctual, animalistic paradigm, be you brave or be you daunted, these rituals are for you. Playful BDSM reaches into the intellect, and can elicit one’s most novel predilections. While I am not a lifestyle Dominatrix, I am an experienced FemDom; one who loves to sensually tease you, playfully torment you, make you gasp & watch you wiggle.
The intensity of a FemDom session can awaken, enliven and command the senses of the receiver. It enlivens me, too. A FemDom encounter is typically more intense than a classic sensual massage, and that is the point. Once a former massage client contacted me with the query “you seem to nice to do that”, asking if I was a real Domina, and why. There are so many preconceived notions of what erotic domination is, and what happens in an encounter. In fact, it is precisely because of how nice I am that I offer a variety of session styles; opportunities for tactile experience, & multi sensory relaxation.
But yes, one may query why a good natured gal and tantric healer would also offer an experience that some may find daunting, or unpleasant. Here is why: after a long and successful career offering FBSM & Tantric Bodywork, I was experiencing a touch of ennui, & feeling the need to do something new and different. Several of my women friends offered sensual domination, in tandem with massage and tantra. Having consulted with them about offering it, and even done some training sessions, I stil was not quite ready to actually incorporate erotic domination.
Finally, one day, while on a work trip in The City of Brotherly Love, the calling came. I hosted my very first sensual FemDom encounter in Philadelphia, & with a most willing receiver. This session awoke a wild power in me that I had yet to experience. The responsiveness elicited in my fabulous client by the use of impact play tools, the aliveness and presence evoked in his erotic moment, was markedly refreshing. I was overwhelmed and exhilarated by the power exchange. It was almost a little too much, but I knew that I wanted to keep going, to stay on this uncharted path and continue offering my quixotic “Tie & Tease” sessions. And so, I did.